pinctrl: pinconf-generic: scan also referenced phandle node

pinctrl: pinconf-generic: scan also referenced phandle node

Make pinconf_generic_dt_node_to_map() also scan the dt pin configuration node
directly referenced by phandle, not only its child nodes.

The "parent scan" feature needs a few other changes:

   * Move the pinconf_generic_dt_node_to_map() error handling code to a common
     place, under the 'exit' label.

   * Move the pins/groups strings count earlier in
     pinconf_generic_dt_subnode_to_map(), to allow us to bail out early when
     these properties are missing or wrong

Signed-off-by: Baruch Siach <baruch@tkos.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Linus Walleij <linus.walleij@linaro.org>